Gdtyjr

this is the first fret of the guitar

i have trouble playing bar chords and when I play open chords my fingers get sore easily.

I have friends that play guitar and they said that it's hard to press.

I'm porting this to the answer space just to have somewhere to hang the photo...

It doesn't really constitute an answer, though it could become one once we have more info.

I'd like to see another pic of more of the neck, because that is starting out at one heck of an angle; so either the neck is bent way out of true, or the action at the 12th fret is about half an inch:

Quick snap of one of my 6-strings & the bass it just happened to be leaning against, showing a much 'flatter' slope to the action as it progresses up the neck.

Should I offer prizes for the first person to correctly identify both? ;)

As noted elsewhere - the issue could be the neck relief [ie, the amount of curve it has in it] or it could be the overall action at the bridge is set too high... or indeed a little of both.

I'd be hesitant to cut the nut any further, it already looks slightly deeper than optimum to me.

It does look high. This could be due to a couple of factors.

The neck may be bent. All guitar necks have a slight bend in them - it's called relief - to stop the strings buzzing on any frets. But too much relief will give your symptoms, and is remedied in part by tightening the trussrod. Not recommended to be done by the inexperienced.

The action may simply be high due to the saddles/bridge being too high. On a lot of guitars, the bridge has a couple of adjusting screws that lower and raise the whole bridge. Others have individual saddles which are adjustable for each string's height. Some have a bridge that cannot be altered except by shaving some off it.

Without a view of the whole of the neck, it's difficult to say more, but lower guage strings often help, as they are not under so much tension, thus being easier to fret. Last resort would be deepen the nut slots, but not particularly recommended.

Only you can determine if the string action is too high. Lowering the action can give problems with string buzz, and especially if you are striking the strings hard. But give it a go to lower the action. The guitar gets easier to play with lower action.

Another thing you could try is to just change to thinner strings. Thicker strings gives more tuning stability and a slightly heavier sound, but they also makes it harder to play.

But yeah, from the picture I'd say that the action is VERY high. You probably should make the groves in the nut deeper.